by Crazy Healer Lady » Tue Dec 21, 2010 8:53 am
I agree with Kystar. Bringing your energy down and grounding is important, but also visualizing two things. One, is getting in touch with the feeling of having enough, that all your needs are met and they will always be met, and even connecting your energy with the centre of the earth. That will help take you out of a type of energy defense that causes people to drain or suck energy out of others, if you find that you are doing this.
Another is just taking some time to yourself to connect with your identity, your true identity, the you beyond you, beyond your clothes, your flesh and bones, beyond your ideals and beliefs, to your very source, that spark of light, and just staying there for a while. Then, sort of letting it expand through you, until you're surrounded by your own light, your own essence, which is so very powerful and special and divine. Eventually, you'll start noticing that spark in others, until you can walk in a room full of people and all you see are what look like stars, if you're still holding that feeling or vibration. That will help to take you out of another type of energy defense that causes your shields to be heavy but porous, and is more likely what you have just described. This visualization also has the happy side-effect of bringing you out of your funk, because it is impossible to be really in touch with your source without overflowing with joy!
Crazy Healer Lady
Health and happiness to you!
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