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My mom passed.

Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:31 am
by Lotus
Everyone,
My mother passed away yesterday in the hospital. If you all would please keep her in your prayers so that her passing is gentle and that her journey to her destination be peaceful.
This is going to maybe sound wierd but even before I got there, she was trying to speak to me from across the veil. For the past week her soul was trapped somewhere and I did not understand until I got to the hospital. She was hooked to a machine to keep her forceably alive. By the feel of her aura, She was trying to go.
The nurses seem to think (and have told us) that she stayed alive just to hear all of us together and to give our final words to her.
I feel kind of guilty and sense some resentment from my brother. I kind of forceably wrestled The Power of Attorney....long story. It is like I show up and then his mother is dead. I was the one to turn her over to hospice but only when the doctor assured that there was nothing more medically they could do.
Please include him in your prayers so that he may have the closure he needs.

When I spoke to her it was evident that she could hear me and understand me. The whole experience was odd. I pretty much told her that I forgave her for her transgressions and I give her credit for all the good things she was responsible for.

I still feel strange.

BB,
Lotus

Re: My mom passed.

Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 3:17 pm
by Crazy Healer Lady
<3 Blessings to you and your family at this time. If you ever need to chat, feel free to PM, etc. [-o< :hug:

Re: My mom passed.

Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 6:46 pm
by Kystar
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Re: My mom passed.

Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2009 4:56 am
by white_harmony
Blessings to you and your family in this tough time honey :hug:

Re: My mom passed.

Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2009 10:17 am
by Max
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Re: My mom passed.

Posted: Mon Aug 17, 2009 8:39 am
by Willow
Blessings to you and your family in this time.

You are allowed to feel any emotion you want right now, weird, angry, upset, even ambivalent, the way we all deal with death shocks most of us. I never cried when my grandfather Iw as very close too died, and when my step grandfather died who I despised, I bawled for a whole day.

I will keep all the things you requested in my thoughts.

Re: My mom passed.

Posted: Mon Aug 17, 2009 7:51 pm
by Kitsune
My blessings to you during this time... I know how turbulent it can be when you lose a loved one. I can only imagine that it's even worse when it's a loved parent.

At least you know that she's not in pain anymore and is resting in the Summerlands... or whichever version of the afterlife she believed in.

I do agree, a Samhain ritual remembering you're lost loved one will help you heal as well as letting your Mother's spirit rest better, knowing that you are healing. I personally remember my Grandmother every Samhain, simply by sitting in meditation, remembering everything I can about her. I honour her memory and leave feeling my burdens in this life lessened by the act.