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Wife Will Remain in the Hospital

Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2004 2:54 pm
by socialgreen
I thought she would come home today. But the doc said no. He found a large bleeding polyop which prevented him from taking a deeper look. That will be removed on Wednesday including any other ones she may have.

Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2004 3:27 pm
by Wbdsgnr1
extra blessings sent to her that health issues get cleared up and she comes home to you soon.

blessed be

Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2004 4:32 pm
by socialgreen
Thank you Wb-1.

Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2004 5:29 pm
by Fairydust
Ill send my love..I hope it all goes well

Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2004 6:35 am
by Lotus
I have been keeping her in my thoughts and now think that doing a healing ritual on her behalf might me a good thing (due to your permission of course).
Good luck.


Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2004 3:02 pm
by socialgreen
Thank you Lotus and Fairy dust.

Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2004 7:47 pm
by runewulf
Good luck and blessings to you both Social. I am so sorry to hear about this turn of events.

My thoughts are with you.

Uruz, Berkanna, Thurisaz, Sowillo, Fehu

Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 3:06 pm
by socialgreen
The surgical proceedure the doctor was going to do did not happen. He discovered something he and the other doctors did not expect at all. What they thought was another polyp in the upper colon area turned out to be a mass of some sort. This growth or whatever has caused a restriction (perhaps three millimeters or [O] this big) in the colon. The doctor said it looked benign but he took samples of it anyways. She will have a CT scan tomorrow morning. She will have major surgery and I don't know when. He talked of removing that section of the colon. The polyp will be removed later. I thought it would be good for you to know. As for me I am a bit upset and worried.

Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:57 pm
by morgana
Social, I'm so sorry things keep going from bad to worse for you and your wife. I'm sending LOTS of good vibes your way. I truly hope that you get some good news soon. [-o< [-o< [-o<

Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 7:26 pm
by Stormy
Social, I am so sorry to hear this news. You and your wife are definately in my prayers and blessings.


Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 8:00 pm
by runewulf
Well, I agree with the others that I'm sorry to hear that my friend.

I can understand your stress and worry quite well as well. However, don't let it eat at you. It doesn't benefit you in any way and may actually cause you problems, so let it go. Be aware of the situation and let your compassion and love of your wife guide you, but let the angerand worry go, as it's wasting your energies that you could be devoting to other places, like your wife, self, kids, pets, etc...

That said, as always, you're in my thoughts and I hope by the gods that all turns out well for you in the end Social. You're one of our little "online family" here and we care about you and the Mrs.

wassail und wunjo meine freund

Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 7:53 am
by Lotus
Try some of that meditation that I suggested.....ask for healing and endurance from the god/god...goddess/universe.
If anything it will bring you peace and a ability to deal with your situation better.


Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 5:12 pm
by Fairydust
You and her are in my thougts during meditation...please let love gide you...dont fallow the may and will lead you to more...
Blessed be,

Posted: Sat Oct 09, 2004 6:55 am
by socialgreen
Thanks everyone,

I have been meditating and I seem to be a bit more peaceful with the situation. Here is an update: My wife will have sugery Monday to remove the polyp and to have another look at the constriction. She will have major surgery on Thursday to remove that area of the colon and to remove her gall bladder. Right now she no longer eats. They feed her through an IV which a main artery is used. She sleeps most of the time and still has severe cramping. They are trying to get her cleaned out as much as possible before Thursday otherwise they will have to put on a coloscomy bag. I have no doubt that she will spend a little time in a nursing home afterwards. I will try to update as much as possible. See all of you later on in the week.

Posted: Sat Oct 09, 2004 9:46 am
by runewulf
As through this whole ordeal, my thoughts are with my friend.

Best wishes to both you and yours :-)