Wife Will Remain in the Hospital

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Wife Will Remain in the Hospital

Post by socialgreen » Mon Oct 04, 2004 2:54 pm

I thought she would come home today. But the doc said no. He found a large bleeding polyop which prevented him from taking a deeper look. That will be removed on Wednesday including any other ones she may have.
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Post by Wbdsgnr1 » Mon Oct 04, 2004 3:27 pm

extra blessings sent to her that health issues get cleared up and she comes home to you soon.


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Post by socialgreen » Mon Oct 04, 2004 4:32 pm

Thank you Wb-1.
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Post by Fairydust » Mon Oct 04, 2004 5:29 pm

Ill send my love..I hope it all goes well
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Post by Lotus » Tue Oct 05, 2004 6:35 am

I have been keeping her in my thoughts and now think that doing a healing ritual on her behalf might me a good thing (due to your permission of course).
Good luck.

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Post by socialgreen » Tue Oct 05, 2004 3:02 pm

Thank you Lotus and Fairy dust.
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Post by runewulf » Tue Oct 05, 2004 7:47 pm

Good luck and blessings to you both Social. I am so sorry to hear about this turn of events.

My thoughts are with you.

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Post by socialgreen » Wed Oct 06, 2004 3:06 pm

The surgical proceedure the doctor was going to do did not happen. He discovered something he and the other doctors did not expect at all. What they thought was another polyp in the upper colon area turned out to be a mass of some sort. This growth or whatever has caused a restriction (perhaps three millimeters or [O] this big) in the colon. The doctor said it looked benign but he took samples of it anyways. She will have a CT scan tomorrow morning. She will have major surgery and I don't know when. He talked of removing that section of the colon. The polyp will be removed later. I thought it would be good for you to know. As for me I am a bit upset and worried.
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Post by morgana » Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:57 pm

Social, I'm so sorry things keep going from bad to worse for you and your wife. I'm sending LOTS of good vibes your way. I truly hope that you get some good news soon. [-o< [-o< [-o<
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Post by Stormy » Wed Oct 06, 2004 7:26 pm

Social, I am so sorry to hear this news. You and your wife are definately in my prayers and blessings.

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Post by runewulf » Wed Oct 06, 2004 8:00 pm

Well, I agree with the others that I'm sorry to hear that my friend.

I can understand your stress and worry quite well as well. However, don't let it eat at you. It doesn't benefit you in any way and may actually cause you problems, so let it go. Be aware of the situation and let your compassion and love of your wife guide you, but let the angerand worry go, as it's wasting your energies that you could be devoting to other places, like your wife, self, kids, pets, etc...

That said, as always, you're in my thoughts and I hope by the gods that all turns out well for you in the end Social. You're one of our little "online family" here and we care about you and the Mrs.

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Post by Lotus » Thu Oct 07, 2004 7:53 am

Try some of that meditation that I suggested.....ask for healing and endurance from the god/god...goddess/universe.
If anything it will bring you peace and a ability to deal with your situation better.

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Post by Fairydust » Thu Oct 07, 2004 5:12 pm

You and her are in my thougts during meditation...please let love gide you...dont fallow the stress...it may and will lead you to more...
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Post by socialgreen » Sat Oct 09, 2004 6:55 am

Thanks everyone,

I have been meditating and I seem to be a bit more peaceful with the situation. Here is an update: My wife will have sugery Monday to remove the polyp and to have another look at the constriction. She will have major surgery on Thursday to remove that area of the colon and to remove her gall bladder. Right now she no longer eats. They feed her through an IV which a main artery is used. She sleeps most of the time and still has severe cramping. They are trying to get her cleaned out as much as possible before Thursday otherwise they will have to put on a coloscomy bag. I have no doubt that she will spend a little time in a nursing home afterwards. I will try to update as much as possible. See all of you later on in the week.
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Post by runewulf » Sat Oct 09, 2004 9:46 am

As through this whole ordeal, my thoughts are with my friend.

Best wishes to both you and yours :-)
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