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broken heart

Posted: Tue Mar 03, 2009 10:48 pm
by raventears
my lover left me tonight it hurts so much we were going to have children he wants to join the marines i feel so horrible :-( i want to cut and get high and drunk i want to feel better i want him to come back to me i love him so much :crybaby:

Re: broken heart

Posted: Wed Mar 04, 2009 4:20 pm
by Sanctaignis
I understand how hurt you are, and I am sorry that he had done such a horrible thing. But cutting, drinking, and doing drugs is not the best way to handle it I am afraid. Gradually the pain of this breakup will deteriorate. I hope you will do the right thing instead of putting your life in danger.

My blessings are with you.

Re: broken heart

Posted: Wed Mar 04, 2009 11:01 pm
by Mahala
Sounds like the boyfriend I have at the current time (Tempted to leave me because he wants to be a Marine, but he knows I'm a once-in-a-life chance.). I'm very sorry that your boyfriend left, but I've learned the hard way that dealing with break ups that are so sudden is best done by talking to my friends. Friends can comfort you and keep you safe until you feel better.

Re: broken heart

Posted: Thu Mar 05, 2009 2:43 am
by Max
Break ups are awful. Don't hurt yourself, protect yourself, find something distracting like painting or sport to do, and lean on your friends (cliches but true).
Of the Marines I know, most split with their partners before they left because of the nature of the job, some got back together, some didn't. It's a difficult job, and hard on the families they leave behind. I hope the pain eases soon Raventears. Always talk to someone before you do something that you think will 'make you feel better' but will inevitably make you feel worse, sharing helps. We're here for you.

Re: broken heart

Posted: Fri Mar 06, 2009 12:17 am
by raventears
we got back together but he want me to give up the coping skill i used while we were apart i dony know if i can

Re: broken heart

Posted: Fri Mar 06, 2009 11:16 pm
by Lotus
Coping skill?
I just got to this and hey breakups hurt but we all get over it.

There are healthy ways of dealing with things and then there are not so healthy ways

Bb
Lotus